why do bachelors aviod financially stable spinters?

Date: 16-06-2011 7:52 am (13 years ago) | Author: vikkyimoh
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- at 16-06-2011 07:52 AM (13 years ago)
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A big frnd of mine is desperate for marriage n weneva she take a guy to her apartment,d guy wil forget evrything abt her.she is a banker,she drives a gud car n lives in a well furnished 3bedroom flat.now she is asking wat to do to attract suitors

Posted: at 16-06-2011 07:52 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- HardcoreAunt at 16-06-2011 08:03 AM (13 years ago)
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um   Cool
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- Pricelesss at 16-06-2011 08:12 AM (13 years ago)
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My fellow Naijapal, the numa 1 thing ur friend must do is STOP BEING DESPERATE!!!! She should understand that the right man will only come within the  right environment......She should continue to dress well, be herself, and belive GOD to help her locate her Man.....She'll definitely get someone who will love her for who she is and she will in turn respect him irrespective of her career status...
She shouldn't see her job/career status as a curse...afterall, she once believed GOD for a job and GOD gave her one, a good one...That same GOD can do it again...
She should also watch her CHARACTER in her subconscious state....This is the major reason most singles delay their marriage...even when d person perceives he/she has seen her/him, just one attitude/character observed, the person begins to doubt and ask himself/herself questions again.....
She should always look good, though not nasty (extreme) cos man looks at the outward appearance.....
Ciao!
Posted: at 16-06-2011 08:12 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Pricelesss at 16-06-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago)
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My fellow Naijapal, the numa 1 thing ur friend must do is STOP BEING DESPERATE!!!! She should understand that the right man will only come within the  right environment......She should continue to dress well, be herself, and belive GOD to help her locate her Man.....She'll definitely get someone who will love her for who she is and she will in turn respect him irrespective of her career status...
She shouldn't see her job/career status as a curse...afterall, she once believed GOD for a job and GOD gave her one, a good one...That same GOD can do it again...
She should also watch her CHARACTER in her subconscious state....This is the major reason most singles delay their marriage...even when d person perceives he/she has seen her/him, just one attitude/character observed, the person begins to doubt and ask himself/herself questions again.....
She should always look good, though not nasty (extreme) cos man looks at the outward appearance.....
Ciao!
Posted: at 16-06-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- MissyBarbie at 16-06-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago)
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Brb
Posted: at 16-06-2011 08:13 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- AlphaOscar at 16-06-2011 11:39 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pricelesss on 16-06-2011 08:13 AM
My fellow Naijapal, the numa 1 thing ur friend must do is STOP BEING DESPERATE!!!! She should understand that the right man will only come within the  right environment......She should continue to dress well, be herself, and belive GOD to help her locate her Man.....She'll definitely get someone who will love her for who she is and she will in turn respect him irrespective of her career status...
She shouldn't see her job/career status as a curse...afterall, she once believed GOD for a job and GOD gave her one, a good one...That same GOD can do it again...
She should also watch her CHARACTER in her subconscious state....This is the major reason most singles delay their marriage...even when d person perceives he/she has seen her/him, just one attitude/character observed, the person begins to doubt and ask himself/herself questions again.....
She should always look good, though not nasty (extreme) cos man looks at the outward appearance.....
Ciao!
I seconded you.
Posted: at 16-06-2011 11:39 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 16-06-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on 16-06-2011 07:52 AM
A big frnd of mine is desperate for marriage n weneva she take a guy to her apartment,d guy wil forget evrything abt her.she is a banker,she drives a gud car n lives in a well furnished 3bedroom flat.now she is asking wat to do to attract suitors


Se never serious, She think apartment and nice car showbiz will give her a right suitor ? Tell her time/age waits for no one, but all those flashy apartment and most beautiful cars will always be there to wait for anyone. The babies born this days will still make enough cash in their life when they grow up.

Posted: at 16-06-2011 11:48 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Bissyboy at 16-06-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago)
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I think it has to do with her desperation- it is so conspicuous on her face and actions. No real man would desire a desperate lady talk more of adding financially stability to desperation. If she could get her mind at ease, she'd definitely get a man of her dreams. It is not her wealth that scares men, it is what she carries on her face vis-a-vis in her actions either consciously or unconsciously. For me, if you like dey live inside Aso Rock, if you catch my fancy, I'd come with you...Ce finis!
Posted: at 16-06-2011 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 16-06-2011 11:57 AM (13 years ago)
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most guys are scared of babes that are well boyant..cos the respect they'll need from dem might not be there..
she might as well be pompous cos of her wealth..
dats why most guys keep kool..

make tell her say make she no desperate again..e no good..abi she wan propose to man?

Posted: at 16-06-2011 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 16-06-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Such guys got no balls in btw !!

Posted: at 16-06-2011 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 16-06-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: AlphaOscar on 16-06-2011 11:39 AM
Quote from: Pricelesss on 16-06-2011 08:13 AM
My fellow Naijapal, the numa 1 thing ur friend must do is STOP BEING DESPERATE!!!! She should understand that the right man will only come within the  right environment......She should continue to dress well, be herself, and belive GOD to help her locate her Man.....She'll definitely get someone who will love her for who she is and she will in turn respect him irrespective of her career status...
She shouldn't see her job/career status as a curse...afterall, she once believed GOD for a job and GOD gave her one, a good one...That same GOD can do it again...
She should also watch her CHARACTER in her subconscious state....This is the major reason most singles delay their marriage...even when d person perceives he/she has seen her/him, just one attitude/character observed, the person begins to doubt and ask himself/herself questions again.....
She should always look good, though not nasty (extreme) cos man looks at the outward appearance.....
Ciao!
I seconded you.

Thirded!!

Posted: at 16-06-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 16-06-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago)
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poster...she need to stop bring dem to her house...but sha she can try my brother out and see if he will forget everything about her.

Posted: at 16-06-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 16-06-2011 12:29 PM (13 years ago)
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fourthed

Posted: at 16-06-2011 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 16-06-2011 12:30 PM (13 years ago)
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chai...hopeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 16-06-2011 12:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 16-06-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago)
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Na wa o!
BRB

Posted: at 16-06-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 16-06-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago)
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IDC
Posted: at 16-06-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Swtezvikky at 17-06-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago)
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reading
Posted: at 17-06-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 17-06-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago)
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 Grin

Posted: at 17-06-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Swtezvikky at 17-06-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 17-06-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 17-06-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Oya, where she de?
Make she come carry me, I no go ride okada again!
Posted: at 17-06-2011 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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