To be able to use an american in that way is funny. .... I have seen so many white couples get divorced. ... BUT CNN did a report saying that white men are (10x) most likely to get divorced…why is this? Do White Women like flirting with Black Men?Married White Men and Black Women have the lowest divorce rate in the country!
I NEED POSITIVE ANSWERS ONLY. Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.For I hate divorce!" says the LORD, the God of Israel. "To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty," says the LORD of Heaven's Armies. "So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife."
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:15 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
is very complicated issue but ...........I think most ladies in divorce really don't know what they want, they seems to be confused, atimes they get bored of one man and answering one man's lady, they just wanna flirt and at same time wanna have a man to call their own, is impossible.
while some are been caused by the men, some will get drunk often, using the wife as a boxing sand bag for training and learning their newest skills. while some men are too irritating to stay with woman longer under same roof without looking outside. Many things breaks most married couple. is not like in some part of Africa, the ladies dont have much to complain about their husband behaviors. be-cos if they will complain and get to their family back, people will laugh or make fun of them, some of them, their families will tell her, You have to go back to your husband and amend things, no matter he do,, he is your husband.
No white lady will take such silly ideas. they just want to have their freedom and liberty to anything.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 1-07-2010 09:28 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 1-07-2010 09:24 PM
is very complicated issue but ...........I think most ladies in divorce really don't know what they want, they seems to be confused, atimes they get bored of one man and answering one man's lady, they just wanna flirt and at same time wanna have a man to call their own, is impossible.
while some are been caused by the men, some will get drunk often, using the wife as a boxing sand bag for training and learning their newest skills. while some men are too irritating to stay with woman longer under same roof without looking outside. Many things breaks most married couple. is not like in some part of Africa, the ladies dont have much to complain about their husband behaviors. be-cos if they will complain and get to their family back, people will laugh or make fun of them, some of them, their families will tell her, You have to go back to your husband and amend things, no matter he do,, he is your husband.
No white lady will take such silly ideas. they just want to have their freedom and liberty to anything.
Agree with all you've said, but with your last words! Explain "liberty to anything "pls
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
When i said Liberty and freedom to anything.. I mean u cant tell her to go back where she will be receiving some blows, slaps or probably screaming husband after he got drunk.
FREEDOM of speech to what she sees as been wrong, she cant take all that because she is married to someone who cant be man enough to take proper care of her,. Just like i mentioned some families will pressure their daughters to go back to such husbands... most white ladies/ families will not stand that. they will definitely welcome their daughter back home and support her to stand back again.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 1-07-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 1-07-2010 09:38 PM
When i said Liberty and freedom to anything.. I mean u cant tell her to go back where she will be receiving some blows, slaps or probably screaming husband after he got drunk.
FREEDOM of speech to what she sees as been wrong, she cant take all that because she is married to someone who cant be man enough to take proper care of her,. Just like i mentioned some families will pressure their daughters to go back to such husbands... most white ladies/ families will not stand that. they will definitely welcome their daughter back home and support her to stand back again.
I understood! I thought you were referring to another kind of liberty!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
When i said Liberty and freedom to anything.. I mean u cant tell her to go back where she will be receiving some blows, slaps or probably screaming husband after he got drunk.
FREEDOM of speech to what she sees as been wrong, she cant take all that because she is married to someone who cant be man enough to take proper care of her,. Just like i mentioned some families will pressure their daughters to go back to such husbands... most white ladies/ families will not stand that. they will definitely welcome their daughter back home and support her to stand back again.
I understood! I thought you were referring to another kind of liberty!
I'm glad you understand, i'm not referring to any other liberty here. despite some ladies really wanna flirt even when in relationship still in the name of Liberty, but i wasn't going there.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 1-07-2010 09:48 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 1-07-2010 09:44 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 1-07-2010 09:40 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 1-07-2010 09:38 PM
When i said Liberty and freedom to anything.. I mean u cant tell her to go back where she will be receiving some blows, slaps or probably screaming husband after he got drunk.
FREEDOM of speech to what she sees as been wrong, she cant take all that because she is married to someone who cant be man enough to take proper care of her,. Just like i mentioned some families will pressure their daughters to go back to such husbands... most white ladies/ families will not stand that. they will definitely welcome their daughter back home and support her to stand back again.
I understood! I thought you were referring to another kind of liberty!
I'm glad you understand, i'm not referring to any other liberty here. despite some ladies really wanna flirt even when in relationship still in the name of Liberty, but i wasn't going there.
Good boy!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 1-07-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Good Post U see, marriages thrives in Africa especially in Nigeria becos the women respect their husbands irrespective of their status and they seek the hand of God in their relationship I was watchin a clip on the shanghai world expo weeks ago where Hally berry was interviewed by a chinese lady, she was asked why are U still unmarried even when u've got a lotta suitors? and she said she's tried that before and it didnt go well, and she added that she dont think she can become a wife to another man, she loves her daughter and would rather stay Unmarried
Now, when U ponder on that word wife the way she used it, it shows that she's not ready to be controlled by a man, most women misunderstand their marriage becos of this gender differences as this century believes that what a man can do, a woman can do better, it has so much affects families in different ways...when a women fails to respect and honour the decision of the husband that spells trouble Nigerians believes the woman must not play wth her marriage and should put in more effort to see it thrive Even when the husband cheats on them, they can always reach an understanding, cos that is not enuf to break a Vow...It is for better or worse, when he does that, helphim out of it. this is what the white ladies fails to do and while they think they're handling it properly they jump from one man to the other and it goes on an ON
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 1-07-2010 10:20 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 1-07-2010 10:01 PM
Good Post U see, marriages thrives in Africa especially in Nigeria becos the women respect their husbands irrespective of their status and they seek the hand of God in their relationship I was watchin a clip on the shanghai world expo weeks ago where Hally berry was interviewed by a chinese lady, she was asked why are U still unmarried even when u've got a lotta suitors? and she said she's tried that before and it didnt go well, and she added that she dont think she can become a wife to another man, she loves her daughter and would rather stay Unmarried
Now, when U ponder on that word wife the way she used it, it shows that she's not ready to be controlled by a man, most women misunderstand their marriage becos of this gender differences as this century believes that what a man can do, a woman can do better, it has so much affects families in different ways...when a women fails to respect and honour the decision of the husband that spells trouble Nigerians believes the woman must not play wth her marriage and should put in more effort to see it thrive Even when the husband cheats on them, they can always reach an understanding, cos that is not enuf to break a Vow...It is for better or worse, when he does that, helphim out of it. this is what the white ladies fails to do and while they think they're handling it properly they jump from one man to the other and it goes on an ON
Come on! You really need to open your eyes to nowadays world! That way of thinking is much way outdated! I'll never approve ppl messing up with their marriage, but that thing, that woman should tolerate any crap from her husband, even the cheating, as u said,it's just ridiculous! If some ppl jumped into marriage before getting to know each other good enough, and discovered after a while that the things are not going so well as they hoped, or that one of them disrespect the institution of marriage (no matter what u say, if one cheats, that means total disrespect! ),and even if after they tried to work it out, the things remained still bad,and they were feeling miserable in that relationship, what's the point for that torture? Yes,most of the white women don't take all the crap a dude can serve her,and they are not afraid to show them the door, and they also are not afraid to bear the life by themselves after that!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
To be honest and also my personal view: Staying in marriage while yr not happy doesn't worth it at all.... why then did u get married should be the , did i marry him/her to be sad all my life ? One should always consider their partner. Making every imperfect things to be perfect not living as Tom and Jerry.
is better to be single than staying in such marriage. Many men/women have died because of such situations, some develop terrible diseases caused by so much worries and thinking about what to do to maintain a healthy relationship.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Women liberation and economic security. The Government comes to the aid of the women in advance countries. Here in the UK, single women with children receive all the benefit you can think of! ( unemployment, housing, child, even divorce benefit.) This made them become too petty. They can just walk away from marriage because they are simply tired of it and in love with someone else.
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 1-07-2010 10:31 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 1-07-2010 10:27 PM
U said women should not tolerate any crap from her husband...maybe i should not include cheating cos, if we have to go into that...i may not go to bed
Now can U point out a perfect marriage where tolerance never dwells?
Even tolerance has limits! Yes,if there is no playing outside, that may be work for some, but there are many other reasons who could make ppl fee unhappy in their marriage, and considering to quit
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Women liberation and economic security. The Government comes to the aid of the women in advance countries. Here in the UK, single women with children receive all the benefit you can think of! ( unemployment, housing, child, even divorce benefit.) This made them become too petty. They can just walk away from marriage because they are simply tired of it and in love with someone else.
U re absolutely right.. just like i mention earlier, they get boring easily and they just wanna get off the hook, is part of the causes, many broken families here and there. just simple be-cos one couldn't adopt to what he/she took the holy oath of it.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 1-07-2010 10:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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