Sex OR Money : Which makes improves the relationship?

Date: 22-08-2009 5:01 pm (14 years ago) | Author: King Samuel O Dguy
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- at 22-08-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Which would you choose first in the order of importance in a relationship, money or sex?

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Sex is it — Scott Robert, Actor
From my heart, I choose sex, and I’ll tell you why. A man can have all the money in the world but can’t keep a relationship because he cannot satisfy his woman’s segxwal needs. Sex which climaxes into lovemaking is sacred, and no amount of money can be compared to it. There are some women who will even prefer to use your money to derive segxwal satisfaction elsewhere if you’re not capable.

Imagine the pain a man will feel if his wife is involved in extra-marital affairs just for mere segxwal satisfaction. Most couples  have split because their segxwal needs were not met.

Take time to read through  several divorce suits published on the pages of newspapers and what you’ll find are irreconcilable differences. What do you think is that difference that cannot be reconciled? In case you don’t know, it is sex. Many marriages will survive, no matter how tough it gets, if couples still derive segxwal satisfaction.
Unless you are talking about commercial sex trade, which I wouldn’t want to be involved with. For people in that kind of business, their slogan remains money for hand, back for ground. So, the earlier our men understand that slogan, the better for them.


•Scott Robert

But for a relationship I’ll call my own, I don’t see money as a threat at all because if I’m broke, it will be for a while. The fact that I don’t have money for a while does not make me a poor man. Of course, in due  time, the money will surely come.

I know you’ll ask me how I intend to cater for my sweetheart when there’s no money in my pocket. If I have a sincere relationship, I’ll do anything within my reach to help when my partner is in need. For example, if she falls sick and there’s no other way to pay her hospital bill because I don’t have money at the moment, I can ask for your assistance, or won’t you assist me? Though I don’t know you, I can take the risk of asking for my enemy’s assistance if that’s the only way to get her back on her feet again.

God has a way of blessing you with money, even when you’re not expecting it. So, people should stop making money a major priority in life. Once you allow money to become the major headache in your relationship, you’ll not be able to enjoy sex the way it should be. And it will surprise you to know that even when the money comes, you’ll still not enjoy sex because you didn’t pay attention to it from the beginning. There’s a popular saying that you don’t begin to learn certain things at old age, and I think sex is one of those things you don’t want to start learning when you’re 50 years old.

Sex is one thing our people do not take seriously but I want to advise my fellow young people both male and female to have a rethink about this issue.
Sincerely 75 percent of broken homes would have survived if they enjoyed their segxwal  lives.  I don’t also envy those young people who shy away from issues related to sex. I think it’s an issue that should be given some priority. It should not always be about chasing money. As much as I agree that it’s right to chase money, it’s also good to relax your muscles and have fun.

Let’s all try to put money where it belongs and give enough attention to issues related to sex.


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Sex is the engine oil — Empress Njamah, Actresss

Sex is the lubricant  that keeps a relationship going. Any relationship with a healthy segxwal satisfaction will hardly die. I mean, there should be this feeling and urge in you anytime  when you’re going to see your man, if he’s segxwally credible. It also applies to the men.

What do you think most married men and women are looking for outside their marital homes? My dear, they’re all seeking for segxwal satisfaction. I mean, most of them are segxwally starved. If not, they’ll stick to their legal partners, after all, they are also aware of dangers involved in the game. But they prefer to take that risk because they want to enjoy themselves.

Come on girl, sex is the main issue here-guaranteed segxwal satisfaction, correct relationship. Money can always come later.



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Money power is best — Stephen Ojo, Civil servant

I think it’s money that can keeps a relationship going. When there is money in a man’s pocket, he has confidence to stay around any class of woman he wishes. I’ll give you a vivid example with myself. As I speak to you, I have three girlfriends who have been calling my phone numbers for some days now. But I’ve refused to attend to them because I don’t have the purchasing power ‘Money’.

They do not know I’m avoiding them because I don’t have the money. Some people will say money is not everything which I also agree with but it will be difficult for a woman to visit me and I can’t even pay for her transport fare. Money is the oil that lubricates a relationship.




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No money, no love —  Dupe Johnson, Stylist

Money…oh! Ah! how do you intend to keep any relationship without money? So, as you fine reach, if man say make you open your leg without money, you go open? It’s true that real love exists but without money that love may be heading for a crash because time will come when both of them will need money to do so many things. If the man needs to cut his hair for example, the woman’s love can’t pay for his hair cut, neither can his love pay for hers.
So, both the man and woman needs money to be happy in their relationship, especially in this period of economic crisis when things are just too expensive. Don’t forget that money makes the world go round.




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Sex plus money equals to love — Omawumi, Musician

Relationship is all about friendship. Both sex and money are tied to friendship. So, I believe they both go together.
For a marriage relationship, sex and money are key ingredients that keep it going. They just can’t do without each another. They have to be there if the marriage must be successful. I don’t agree that any of them should be superior to the other when it comes to marriage relationship.  So, gather the money and at the same time, have fun.



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Money is good but…  — Uzoma Ugwumba, Civil servant

Sex will survive a relationship much more than money can. I agree that money can help people in a relationship get so many material things but sex has a way of reaching out to the heart, much more than money can. You can have all the money and the woman will still not love you if you can’t meet her segxwal obligations. So, guys go and learn how to satisfy the segxwal needs of your woman and she’ll love you for life.


Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- blackberryPearl at 22-08-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago)
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none of the above.
when u get a better list, come hit me up
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- eddybabs at 22-08-2009 05:03 PM (14 years ago)
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all of the above
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 22-08-2009 05:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blackberryPearl on 22-08-2009 05:02 PM
none of the above.
when u get a better list, come hit me up


Bring up your list - excluding sex & money...

Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- around_d_corner at 22-08-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 22-08-2009 05:06 PM
Abi ooo
everly.....
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- eddybabs at 22-08-2009 05:14 PM (14 years ago)
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take am easy ooo
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 22-08-2009 05:17 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on 22-08-2009 05:05 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 22-08-2009 05:02 PM
none of the above.
when u get a better list, come hit me up


Bring up your list - excluding sex & money...
i will
cuz love doesn't have money or sex written all over it.
u as a person write all of that.
brb
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 22-08-2009 05:25 PM (14 years ago)
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this guy is cute ...feel like hving him
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:25 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 22-08-2009 05:27 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on 22-08-2009 05:25 PM
this guy is cute ...feel like hving him
Yea...:Dbut when u say having him in wat context r u talking about? Huh? Lips Sealed

Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:27 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 22-08-2009 05:28 PM (14 years ago)
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no comento
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- around_d_corner at 22-08-2009 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on 22-08-2009 05:25 PM
this guy is cute ...feel like hving him
u are veri free......
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 22-08-2009 05:30 PM (14 years ago)
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men ..his so lovely ..with dat look ...i dont need money ooo

ok now I go with sex
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:30 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 22-08-2009 05:44 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on 22-08-2009 05:30 PM
men ..his so lovely ..with dat look ...i dont need money ooo

ok now I go with sex
But don't u need good food and energy 2 be able 2 have a good tyme with ur partner Huh?

Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- zie85er at 22-08-2009 05:52 PM (14 years ago)
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mehn!...i dunno o

Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- emmyG at 22-08-2009 05:59 PM (14 years ago)
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just need dat guy
Posted: at 22-08-2009 05:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- zie85er at 22-08-2009 06:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: emmyG on 22-08-2009 05:30 PM
men ..his so lovely ..with dat look ...i dont need money ooo

ok now I go with sex
how do u know he'll b gud in bed by just d face?

Posted: at 22-08-2009 06:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 23-08-2009 12:53 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blackberryPearl on 22-08-2009 05:17 PM
Quote from: dguy on 22-08-2009 05:05 PM
Quote from: blackberryPearl on 22-08-2009 05:02 PM
none of the above.
when u get a better list, come hit me up


Bring up your list - excluding sex & money...
i will
cuz love doesn't have money or sex written all over it.
u as a person write all of that.
brb

BBP, the question was which one of the two improves a relationship, remember, not all relationships are based on love, some are based on agreements, some sex, some money. Not all relationships are based on love, i guess would be my point.
Posted: at 23-08-2009 12:53 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- NenyeN at 23-08-2009 03:57 AM (14 years ago)
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No two relationships are exactly the same. For that reason, a blanket questions like that "Sex or Money: Which improves the relationship?" cannot be answered.

Posted: at 23-08-2009 03:57 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- esonu at 23-08-2009 11:36 AM (14 years ago)
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i guess money improves relationship!! if their are 100% of ladies, 99% is after ur money, they may claim to love u, whenever u ask for sex they will give it to u double because of the money they are getting from u but any day u start telling stories, they will start withdrawing theirself from u cos maga no dey pay again... no gurl can convince me that she doesnt love money and none as well can tell me that she will give 100% love to a guy who has no money without her having double mind or seeking for another guy that is financially bouyant

Posted: at 23-08-2009 11:36 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- welli at 23-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago)
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I'D say Money. Sex is overrated.

Posted: at 23-08-2009 11:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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