Love is a thing which cannot be learned but rather must be experienced by a person in life. It is a manifestation of feelings & emotions which is the ultimate essence of human life.

Many of us celebrate Valentines Day on every 14th of February as a common day to rekindle existing love in a relationship or a chance to create new feelings between two people. Although it seems that people who are in love celebrate their love for each other everyday. Being in love is a beautiful experience.

Some people question the happiness felt when with one another as a probable sign of being in love. We may not be sure whether what we feel is a normal bond of friendship or it may be more than it.

Below are 10 tips to help you put your feelings towards another person into perspective:

The person makes you forget about your "ex"

Memories with a previous romantic partner can be difficult to forget. The new person in your life makes you forget about your good or bad moments you had with your "ex".

Always remembering the person

You do not remember about anything else significantly when you focus on your work. Other times when you are not busy you remember the person & the good moments you shared when being together.

Always showing concern

The person shows interest in you. The person appreciates your opinions, thoughts, what you do etc without being intrusive in your live. The person knows what you like to do & what makes you happy.

A characteristic about the person that attracts you

You are attracted to the person regarding table manners, how the person treats other people, well cultured, politeness etc. There is something about the person that you like and your feelings build on it. The cheerfulness & charisma of the person impresses you.

Go well together

Both of you have a lot of things in common. You have similar taste & enjoy the same activities like hobbies & interests with the person. You communicate well with each other & you can talk about anything with the person. It makes more chances of finding the special moment of wanting to express your love to the person. It is not to be expected as it will come to you as natural as possible. Or else when you seem to be the opposite character of the other person then try to avoid major disputes or quarrels.

Loyal to only each other

Love means that you love the person & only the person. It is not at all good to play with another person's feelings. While sharing the same feeling towards more than one person at the same instance then it is not love that you have found but it is merely a game.

Sharing special moments

Beautiful moments are made & shared while being together. The person makes an effort to be with you instead of being with friends. It is a good chance to get to know each other better, talk and feel good while being close to each other.

Learning to compromise

You may have many things in common with the person but there are sure to be moments that you can not seem to agree with each other. The person is able to reach a compromise with your needs & it is a good platform for being together as a couple in the future.

Prioritizing Importance

Naturally, you give the person special treatment and you make way in your hectic schedule to be with the person. The person simultaneously does the same to put you ahead over many things happening in life. Moral support and helping you is done dutifully.

Together thinking about the future

You discuss about things you can do together in the near future with the person. You feel excited & happy about having trips, going to a party or attending a wedding together.

Your relation with the person may only be starting and there is a long way to go. The above tips will help you decide & evaluate what you have with a person in the early stages to avoid making mistakes which you may regret.

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Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:09 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

oh yes...gat any of those signs?...hmmmm....xxx
awww been bitten by a love bug...hehe its FEB ...lol!

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some1 pls summarize 

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:12 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

ask d poster..or d person below me

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some1 pls summarize 

take summary :The person makes you forget about your "ex"
Always remembering the person
Always showing concern
A characteristic about the person that attracts you
Go well together
Loyal to only each other
Sharing special moments
Learning to compromise
Prioritizing Importance
Together thinking about the future

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks poster .. awesome !

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:22 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

thanks poster .. awesome !

yw diplomatik..lol

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

full stop

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:28 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Nyc one....

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

full stop

looolz pointzero...put the closing remarks hahahaaaa

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Nyc one....

thx thx dude!

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[noted..]

noted..

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:47 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

full stop

looolz pointzero...put the closing remarks hahahaaaa

Na ihm dey there na....................well done

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 1-02-2011 02:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[noted..]

noted..

Posted: at 1-02-2011 03:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

nice one

Posted: at 1-02-2011 03:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

nice one

Posted: at 1-02-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some1 pls summarize 

take summary :The person makes you forget about your "ex"
Always remembering the person
Always showing concern
A characteristic about the person that attracts you
Go well together
Loyal to only each other
Sharing special moments
Learning to compromise
Prioritizing Importance
Together thinking about the future

does being in love with love maters? cuz most of these signs can b found with those in love with love

Posted: at 1-02-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

ok

Posted: at 1-02-2011 06:00 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

some1 pls summarize 

take summary :The person makes you forget about your "ex"
Always remembering the person
Always showing concern
A characteristic about the person that attracts you
Go well together
Loyal to only each other
Sharing special moments
Learning to compromise
Prioritizing Importance
Together thinking about the future

Now you come! I almost dump the post when I saw the summary.
It's a nice one!

Posted: at 1-02-2011 06:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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