My appeal to the young men in this forum, To be a man is not a thing of the muscle alone. Intelligence and diplomacy is gateway to a successful marriage. It's somehow ridiculous to see some of you loose guard and every sence of reasoning  like bees disturbed in their hives, once it comes to female creatures and their most essential machandise. A woman is not a commodity or possession, they are free beings and free in there own discision making.

You don't have respect for the marriage institution, there are secrets that can be equated to death sentences, Maturity/Being a man does not mean doing terrible things and keeping them as secrets. From the way you spoke, if it was you, you would actually sleep with your brother's wife and keep it as a secret. People like you can grossly cheat on your wife, to the point of marrying in every state you are transfered  to and having children there in secret. You are a terible man (but i doubt if you are a man) Na men like una spoil Nigeria. The gateway to a successful marriage is GODLINESS, LOVE, UNDERSTANDING AND FAITHFULNESS. NOTHING MORE OR LESS. The only thing that defines the relevance of the oath of marriage is faithfulness on the part of the Husband and wife, if one of them cannot remain faithful, then there is no need to get married, let them just be having the sex with whoever they wish ( since both of them have equal rights to choose who to have sex with). Listen and Listen well, IN THE MARRIAGE ARRANGEMENT SEX IS LIMITED TO BOTH THE HUSBAND AND WIFE, Does not include; in-laws, neighbors, Gate-man, House-help,Driver etc. YOU HEAR SO!!!!!!

Who  talk say what God has joined together let no man put asunder?? She want make the marriage succeed naim she wan sleep with her husband junior brother? As for me o, tell your brother, make whatin wan happen-happen. dem no go do pass the slap weh she don already give you. If your own brother come because say you tell am  truth about he wife drive you commot from house, then Move-out and find some where to stay. Don't move out now if things are difficult with you, but spend less time at home (if you have nothing doing for now, Hangout with some friends), ensure the only reason you come home is to sleep for the night, if possible don't eat her food. BUT TELL YOUR BROTHER BEFORE YOU LEAVE, BECAUSE IF ANYTHING HAPPEN TO HIM, YOUR PEOPLE WILL NOT FORGIVE U AND YOU'LL SHARE IN THE GUILT. TELL HIM SOONEST, YOU DON'T KNOW IF HER PLAN IS TO ELIMINATE YOUR FAMILY. You are a man, How can a woman segxwally harass you and when she realize you're not yielding, she resort to violence (This sort of thing happen to so many Guys, but many of them yield/do what the women want) because these foolish guys see it as an opportunity to have cheap sex. I must commend you for remaining morally unmovable. I think we should stage a campaign condemning segxwal harassment and violence  against young men by  Nigerian woman.

@sixtyhoneyy. You bi fool. Go neel-down wait for inside house. You chop perper today.

i really think sixtyhoneyy is a bitch, girls like you can easily destroy things, You're so argumentative. Na ignorance dey worry you. Wo wo girl!

Anyone who is advicing this man not to let his brother know is a moroon. so many men has had their lives distroyed, their families shattered, their image tannished and have even lost their lives to women of this sort. She was'nt even scared of the fact that her Husband might easily know about it. Tell your brother and see to it that she pays for it (although it is bad for a wife to sleep with another man, the worst a woman can do to her husband is sleep with her husband's brother or close friend-it's grossly humiliating)

My Friend Move out of the house and tell your brother the whole story, if she could attempt to have you sleep with her who is her brother in-law, she probably would be doing it with neigbors when you were not yet living with them and when you move out, she will still get somebody else to replace you, such a woman can even get your brother killed. Let you brother know so that he will know how to sefeguard himself. Please don't keep it away from him

Broz Na normal thing, You try, if no bi God i for don straf a total of 14 different married women who want me to sleep with them, but i always avoid them, maybe you na the type of guy weh no get self control, just try man,try avoid they, begin to straf spinsters instead of married women no matter the promises. i know they are the once inviting you, even if na you toast them, if they don't want it from you, they will not take it lightly with you (they'll be angry when you attempt). It's their fault.
And to all NPs who prevously commented (especially the females; YOU ARE ALL FOOLS), if only you know what Handsome Guys go through with married women. None of you could even see beyound the surface, i'm so disapointed in All of you Nigerians.

Good girls tend to pretend alot when approached by good guys (especially the decent once. those who do not flirt with many women or womanize) because they think because these guys do not have much connection to women, they (the gurls) may want to utilize the opportunity to take advantage of the guy, they think the guys will always continue trying to win their heart forever, even if these guys wait for ages and they finally gets into a relationship, the gurls offen missbehaves alot, she begin to do what she would'nt ordinarily do to anybody (most cases she can even make jest of the guy and call him names or even curse him especially when she is with her friends at the absence of the guy, she will usually dispaly a high level of disrespect). the major reason why she does all these is because she belives the guy would not go get another gurl, women/gurls are humans that take advantage of every little opportunity to have an advantage, this normally happen to men/males who are dedicated to their education (if still in school),work etc.
I hereby advice every man not to let his school or job take him totally away from associating with females, in fact it is wise to have bunch of female friends (so that when you finally settle for one she will understand that your choosing her from among your bunch of female friends goes to show how much you value her.
This is a true life story. It happend to me. i use to be a guy who do not have time for girls when i was in school, and same applied when i was serving. i have been working for a year 1 +, i felt it was time to find a gurl, i can tell you that every girl i meet always want to defraud me (infact many have suceeded) but some womanizers close to my apartment get these girls with little effort. it' a puzzle  am still trying to solve. so i got so furious when he got one girl  i've been talking to fpr weeks  who just moved-in  some blocks away (she knew this guy will only sleep with her and leave her and she approved of him instead of me - it was horrible), the extreemly annoying part of it it that she later came to me wanting to be so close after somebody else have phyuked her (why the hell will she o such a thing-i guess maybe she think i'll always be there for her, she just wanted to have her last dos of indicent sex before she come to me. so i changed my style, i stoped approaching girls with my tie on suit  (especially when coming from work), now i dress rugged and when i approach them i sound as if i'm not too interested, honestly sometimes i struggle to save my battery from my bunch of female flashers,  formally when i come online i used to be corprate, now i am so formal (in fact local and this is why i have this pic on my profile) and so far the gurlz are loving it. AFTER ALL, I HAVE COME TO CONCLUDE THAT GIRLS ARE SO FOOLISH (at least the once i've met). They should'nt be shown mercy, i have decided to womanize and phyuk every phyuking woman i meet, if they want money they can have it, i prefere to get what i want while she get hers, instead of fooling my self with a bitch who claims to be in love when in reality she does not, she's phyuking other guys and she's killing me.

Shine your eyes men!!!