(@ toebee)Thank you 4 calling me a pastor though am not even close to being one, better to be called that than a sex perv. And you my friend, i think have no original thot pattern on this issue. As one of my teachers would say " LEAD, FOLLOW, OR JUST GET OFF THE WAY".
(@nigerianvixen26) You surely are on your way to being the next famous doc 'cos it shows with ur thots that you've got a bright head on your shoulders. Your views are quite true but even in teaching protection,
self control is very important, which in every situation that you've raised is the major thing that can help; good relationship, great marriage and generally a great life.